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What Should the Groom Do on the Big Day?

Many times, weddings seem to be all about the bride – but that doesn’t mean the groom isn’t important or that he doesn’t care about the outcome of the wedding itself.

On the contrary, actually: it does take two to make a wedding happen – and, as the groom, you want to be involved in the wedding as much as possible.

What are some of the things the groom should do on his wedding day? We have some tips for you – so read on and find out more.


  • Yes, the bride is usually very stressed out on her wedding day – but that doesn’t mean that the groom doesn’t feel the same. On the contrary: it is more than likely that you, as a groom, will be just as nervous as your lovely blushing bride. Relax, though. Take a walk, listen to some music, spend some quality time with your groomsmen getting ready. This is a once in a lifetime kind of event and you should allow its beauty to soak into your skin and memory.
  • We’re more than sure food is the last thing you’re thinking about on the morning of your wedding. However, keep in mind that this is going to be a long day and you need all your energy to handle everything that will come your way: physically (all that dancing!) and emotionally (it’s going to be a rollercoaster, we promise). Given how busy you will be, it is more than likely that you won’t be able to eat much during the wedding, so do grab a nice, nutritious breakfast before everything begins.
  • Write a letter to your spouse-to-be. This can make the wedding all the more sentimental and it can add such nice memories to the Big Day! Sit down and simply write your thoughts: why you think this person is the one for you, how you meet, and how you felt when you met, what are your hopes for the future, and so on. Have it delivered to your future spouse – she will absolutely LOVE reading it as she is getting ready!


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